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Do We Welcome People Who Do Not Believe in
God?
A Sermon Given
by The Reverend Roger Fritts
on November 9, 2003
at Cedar Lane Unitarian Universalist Church
Bethesda, Maryland
Last February, as many of you may remember, the church held our
annual auction as a major fund-raising activity. We asked members of the
congregation to offer services for which other church members might bid.
I made my usual offering: I promised to allow the high bidder to decide
the topic for a sermon I would preach here in the church sometime during
the church year. The purchaser and I would go to lunch, talk together. I
would attempt to create from that conversation a sermon that would
respond to the issues the bidder wished addressed.
Several people were kind enough to bid on the opportunity to pick a
sermon topic. Eventually Peter Mathers made the highest bid.
Later in the spring I took the metro down to visit Peter and his wife
Bonnie Beavers at their offices near Dupont Circle. We went to lunch at
a wonderful Italian restaurant.
As the conversation progressed, Peter explained that he grew up in
New Jersey where his mother took him to church. By high school he had
become a closet atheist, but he continued to go to his church youth
group. Now, he said, that he is just not a theistic kind of guy. Peter
asked "Do Unitarian Universalists really mean it when they say they
welcome people who do not believe in God?"
Over the twenty-five years I have served as a minister, people have
often asked me questions about inclusion. Someone might say to me, "I am
an atheist. Is there a place for me in this church?" Someone else might
say, "I am a Christian. Am I welcome in this congregation?" Still
another person might say "I work in the Republican White House. Am I
welcome in this church?" These are very serious questions. We all have
memories of times when we have heard the message that we are not
welcome. Rejection can be very painful. It can make us angry. Rejection
is something most of us never forget.
I answer these questions by saying, "Yes. You are welcome in this
congregation. I say that about 20% of our membership are atheists. About
10% of Unitarian Universalists are Christian. Several key leaders in our
congregation are republicans. We may even have an atheist republican or
a Christian republican. One thing that makes this an interesting
community is our diversity."
One way I try to encourage this variety is periodically to remind you
that in a Unitarian Universalist church a minister’s view is only his or
her opinion, not the official opinion of the congregation. You are free
to agree or disagree with me. We have no creed or interpretation of
scripture we require you to believe to be a member of this congregation.
Therefore, a belief in God is not a requirement of membership.
Still being an atheist is not easy. They are a small minority in the
United States. Every year researchers ask Americans whether they believe
in God, and every year the same overwhelming majority ranging from 92 to
97 percent say yes. In one study 76 percent believe God is a heavenly
being who pays attention to their prayers. Seventy-five percent proclaim
a belief in religious miracles.
Atheists live in a nation filled with theist beliefs and theist
declarations. In school the government expects their children to pledge
allegiance to "one nation under God." Atheists must sit through
invocations at public meetings or sit silently as grace is spoken before
a meal. On their money are the words "In God We Trust." Only 49 percent
of Americans say they would consider voting for an atheist for
president. In other words, half the nation believes atheists are
unpatriotic, morally unreliable and not fully trustworthy.
In contrast, I hope that people who do not believe in God feel
welcome in this congregation. One of my favorite quotations from Thomas
Jefferson appears in a letter that he wrote to his nephew in 1787.
Jefferson said, "Question with boldness even the existence of God;
because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason
than that of blindfolded fear."
This is how Unitarian Universalism is different from other religions.
The application of reason, logic and the scientific method has been our
major contribution to the world. Indeed some of our greatest religious
leaders have also been scientists. Michael Servetus not only proved that
the Trinity is not in the New Testament, he also discovered that the
purpose of the human heart is to pump blood through the lungs and
through the body. Joseph Priestly not only founded the first Unitarian
Church in Philadelphia, he also discovered oxygen. Today some of our
largest congregations are found next to universities, or next to major
scientific institutions like the National Institute of Health. Unitarian
Universalists get the highest scores on IQ tests and the SAT.
We are a creedless church. We do not require you to promise that you
will always use reason, logic and the scientific method to be a member
of this congregation. Still these tools are a strong part of our
religious tradition and they are a strong part of whom we are today.
Personally, I hope all of you follow Jefferson’s advice and question
with boldness even the existence of God. I hope that whatever conclusion
you come to at the end of your bold questions, you still feel welcome in
this congregation.
Of course we could resolve this issue about God once and for all. We
could call a congregational meeting and vote on whether God exists. If
the majority voted that God does exist, we could create a statement of
belief to that effect and require that everyone sign it to stay as a
member of this church. Or, if the majority voted that God does not
exist, we could encourage the theists to leave. Or perhaps the agnostics
would win. We could chase out both the theists and the atheists and
change our name to the First Agnostic Congregation of Bethesda.
We could do this, but in my role as one of your ministers, I advise
against it. Not only is it inconsistent with the traditional practice of
unitarian and universalist congregations, I think it would create a
congregation that would be far less interesting. I find it more exciting
and stimulating to have in this congregation of atheists, theists and
agnostics. I learn from all three perspectives.
This diversity does, however, raise issues when it comes to leading
worship. On the weeks that I am leading the Sunday service, I sit
Thursday and select the readings. Besides the hymnal I have, on my
computer, a collection of hundreds of readings for worship written by
Unitarian and Universalist clergy. I use the "find" feature on my word
processor to search for appropriate words. In the section called "call
to worship" only one reading uses the word atheist. I used it for the
opening words this morning. The word God is in twenty-four of the
readings. However, 275 of the "calls to worship" do not mention God. Put
another way, in an anthology of calls to worship written by more than
200 Unitarian and Universalist ministers, only 7 percent of the readings
refer to God. I suspect this reflects the desire of our ministers to use
language that is inclusive of all in the congregation both theist and
non theist. We want theists, atheists and agnostics to feel welcome in
our worship. Each week when I select a reading, I think of all of you
and try to imagine how you will react to the words.
Finally, when I think about the word god, I remember an incident that
occurred more than thirty-three years ago. I was a first-year student at
Arizona State University back in May of 1970. The first week of that
month national guard troops shot and killed four students at Kent State
in Ohio, during protests against the us invasion of Cambodia. At Arizona
State about ten thousand students took to the streets to protest the
shootings. For several thousand students the focus of the protest became
the campus flag pole. They surrounded the pole saying that it should be
lowered to half-mast to honor the students who had been killed at Kent
State. A small contingency of campus security police surrounded the
flag. Finally, the head of campus security defused the tension by
lowering the flag to half - mast. It stayed that way for a few hours
until the governor intervened. He ordered the flag raised and he sent in
state police to enforce his order and stand guard around the flag pole.
As the tension grew a friend of mine, who worked as a volunteer draft
counselor, got a piece of poster board. With a marker he wrote in big
letters "the flag is a trap." He then stood in the space between the
police and the protesters and walked around the flag pole. He faced the
shouting demonstrators with his sign so that people could read the words
"the flag is a trap." The people in the front began to ask him what he
meant. "The flag," he explained "is only a symbol. If you are successful
in defeating the police and getting it lowered to half mast, you will
have accomplished nothing of any value. You will not bring back the
lives of the people who died at Kent State. You will not end the
invasion of Cambodia or the war in Vietnam. By fighting with the police
you will not change anyone’s opinion about the war. The flag is a trap
because you have taken all your anger and all your rage about the war
and focused it on moving a piece of cloth down a few feet on a metal
pole. Walk away from this confrontation. Do something to end the war.
Refuse to serve in Vietnam. Refuse to pay that part of your taxes that
goes to support the war. Find one person who supports the war and sit
with that person and try to convince them that the war is wrong. Find a
political candidate who is against the war and support that candidate in
the next election. Write a letter of protest to your elected officials.
Do the hard work that needs to be done to end this terrible war." he
walked around the circle saying stuff like that all afternoon until
eventually his voice gave out.
I do not know whether it was because of my friend or because of the
armed circle of the state police, but there was no violence that day.
Eventually the students grew tired and headed back to their dorms or
apartments.
Why do I think of this when I think about the issue of theism and
atheism? I think the word "god" is also a trap. It is just a symbol,
just a pattern of dried ink, or just some vibrations produced by our
vocal cords. In the end we should not choose to be part of or to reject
a religious community because of the pattern of ink on paper or the
vibrations produced by our bodies.
When people say that they are atheists, all they are really saying is
that they do not find the word god useful in describing life and the
universe as they experience it. When a person uses the word god, they
are simply saying that they still find the word god helpful in
attempting to describe the nature of things.
To exclude someone from a community or to leave a community of
friends because of a word is as foolish as it is to get into a fight
over moving a piece of cloth a few feet up or down a metal pole.
What matters is the quality of the relationships that we have
together. Far more important than whether we are comfortable with the
word god, is where we are comfortable with the people in our religious
community. Beyond our families, the most important organization in our
lives should be a religious community. I define a religious community as
a fellowship of people who cherish, practice and develop traditions
concerning the purpose of human life. There may be a few persons who do
not need such a community. However, most of us are too easily distracted
from the values to which we want to devote ourselves. A religious
community should give support and encouragement to us in living up to
the ethical rules of honesty and of keeping our promises, and of being
kind to others. It should support us in times of difficulty, such as
illness. In a unitarian universalist church the community should support
us in using the tools of reason, logic and scientific method in
understanding the nature of the universe.
We gather here - as individual people -
Young and old;
Male and female;
Temporarily able and disabled;
Gay, lesbian, bisexual and straight people,
All the colors of the human race;
Theist, Atheist, Agnostic, Christian, Buddhist, Feminist, Humanist.
We gather here as a community of people who are more than categories.
We gather here—each ministering to the other, meeting one another's
strength, encouraging wholeness.
We give thanks for this extraordinary blessing - the gathering
together of separate, unique individuals as a whole, one body, our
church.
Here may our minds stretch,
our hearts open,
our spirits deepen.
Here may we acknowledge our brokenness and be ever stirred by love's
infinite possibilities.
Come, let us worship.
Closing by The Rev. Barbara Hamilton-Holway
Office@CedarLane.org
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