A Word of Thanks to our Flower Committee
A Sermon Given
by Rev. Roger Fritts
May 31, 1998
at Cedar Lane Unitarian Universalist Church
Bethesda, Maryland
Every Sunday at this church we get to see a unique, original work of
art. Each Sunday a new sculpture created for all to see who attend our
worship services. Of course, I am speaking of the flowers that appear
on this table each week. They are the product of our church's Flower
committee. Like all works of creativity, it takes hard work to produce
these wonderful sculptures. I ask members of the Flower committee
what motivated their commitment to flowers. Ellen Thompson wrote
to me:
As long as I can remember, my parents planted flowers
in the garden and we had bouquets in the house during
spring, summer, and fall. My father especially enjoyed
finding unusual flowering bushes and trees. On my
first trip to Europe in 1955, the beautiful flower beds
and window boxes, even on office buildings, deeply
impressed me.
My sister and all four brothers have developed an
interest in flowers and plants -- not in arranging them
but in growing them to enjoy. Two of the
granddaughters have manifested special interest in
flowers -- one working in a flower shop and one in a
nursery to earn money during college.
I have always admired the flower arrangements at
Cedar Lane as they were so different from the stiff
basket arrangements that I was used to in churches. It
was intriguing to see that a small number of blossoms
could become a striking arrangement. So I finally
worked up nerve enough to ask to join the Flower
committee to learn how to do it. Then I took classes
-- first in Spring B and then with a trained Ikebana
teacher. I like making an arrangement that pleases me
and that others seem to enjoy, too.
Ellen Thompson's statement that the flower arrangements at Cedar
Lane different from the stiff basket arrangements in other churches,
is true. Our flower arrangements often follow a Japanese style of
flower arranging. Fourteen hundred years ago, Chinese Buddhist
missionaries, who had developed a formalized ritual of offering
flowers to the Buddha, introduced their approach to the Japanese. Out
of this Buddhist religious tradition Ikebana developed. It is based on
a harmony of simple linear construction and an appreciation of the
subtle beauty of flowers and natural material. Sarah Reese writes:
In the floral art of Japan flowers are handled and
arranged in a way that glorifies nature. Many flower
committee members have studied some Ikebana and I
think they approach the arranging of the flowers for a
Sunday morning service in a religious attitude.
We live in a wooded area and most of our acre lot is
left in the natural state. In the spring several small
wild flowers pop up and these small blossoms give me
much pleasure. My favorite bouquet is one of common
summer wild flowers -- Queen Anne's lace, black eyed
susans, golden rod, wild grasses and whatever can be
found to add to it.
Oriole Saah says that for her creating flower displays began in college.
She wrote to me:
I don't really think too much about flowers, except that
it is my way of making a small contribution to the
congregation.
I worked in a flower shop for a summer during college.
I don't know what made me think that gave me enough
skill to do my own wedding flowers (I guess I just
didn't know any better), but I pulled it off and they
were beautiful. Since then I've done flowers in silk for
the weddings of some of my friends, and given them as
my wedding gift. It makes them happy. It makes me
feel good to contribute something that will live on in
their memories and their photographs.
Flower committee members have many reasons why they work so hard
to create beautiful flowers for our Sunday services. Joyce Collier
wrote:
I love flowers for their all too short-lived beauty and
their fabulous variety of shape and color. I rejoice as
they bloom, and I morn as they fade and droop. I think
my favorite is the beautiful little snow drop though
really any flower in bloom is a joy.
And Lois Delaha writes:
Flowers, planting, and growing, arranging them are all
meaningful experiences for me, mostly religious. The
beauty of flowers is a necessity to my happiness.
I have a plant light in my recreation room so I can
enjoy flowers all seasons. During those bleak winter
days I have my flowers and plants.
My husband Ed shared my love for roses and shared
my interest in flower planting, but not arranging. He
would leave that to "the talented one" as he called me.
The most inspiring time for me was January 1997. I do
memorial flowers for my husband in January and I
keep up the tradition of different colors of roses that he
loved. Sharon Boyer was ushering and told me, when
I arrived at church, that one of my favorite singers in
the choir was singing "The Rose." The service was
wonderful, the music was inspiration and the flowers
were almost my best.
Other persons on the Flower committee got involved after an
experience of loss. One Flower committee member wrote to me:
I started arranging flowers because of a death in our
family. Our third and youngest daughter passed away
three days before her fifth birthday from leukemia. I
had a deep need to have a living memorial for
her--and thanks to the Flower committee at Cedar
Lane, I had that chance.
The final word belongs to Doris Keyes. Doris wrote:
Dear Roger,
Thank you for your letter of May 12. I am sure that all
of the Flower committee members who are in town
will be present and are very pleased to be shown
appreciation. However, believe it or not, the
enjoyment that each of us gets from having worked
with flowers is quite enough appreciation.
Here are some of the adjectives I think of when I am
flower arranging:
Challenging
Demanding
Calming
Therapeutic
Spirit lifting
Exciting
Exacting
Frustrating
Perplexing
Rewarding
Fulfilling
In working with flowers there is no end to learning.
Flowers have a will of their own and you find you
frequently end up being the servant and they are the
master. Still, to bring a sense of harmony out of all
those unrelated objects is your personal reward.
I have been working with flowers since 1957 and still
feel like a novice.
In a mechanized, computerized, and technological society, I sing the
praises of flowers. In the May, with the miracle of growth, the
exhilaration of bloom, the excitement of color, the fulfillment of
ripening -- it is good to turn our eyes to the delights of the natural
world. We forget the machinery for a moment, and enjoy the smell,
the feel, the shape and the color of a rose or a carnation or a tulip.
A committee of creative people has made flowers a part of our worship
at this church for many years. Each week I say a silent thank you to
them. Today I invite them to stand and say their names. So that we
can all show our appreciation for their work.
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