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Sustaining a Spiritual Community

A Sermon Given
by Rev. Roger Fritts
August 16, 1998
at Cedar Lane Unitarian Universalist Church
Bethesda, Maryland

In July I spent part of my vacation in Arizona with my three children, leaving my wife, Leslie, in Maryland to see her clients and to work on her doctoral dissertation. After a long drive across the high desert to the South Rim of the Grand Canyon we hiked down into the canyon through 10 miles of scorching heat. Even my seven-year-old daughter hiked with us. She carried water and her clothing in a backpack, while I carried her sleeping bag along with my own. The hike took us six hours. The heat drained all of us of energy. We each drank a gallon of water as we walked. Not being in perfect physical condition, after about five miles my back and my legs ached with pain.

The trail we took is not the main trail on the south rim that most people hike. Instead we hiked into Havasu Canyon, a tributary of the Grand Canyon, many miles west of the main tourist view points on the south rim. Havasupai is the name of an Indian tribe that lives at the bottom of the canyon. The Havasupai Reservation is one of the most beautiful and remote areas of the Grand Canyon. The village is accessible only by foot, horseback, or helicopter. About 12,000 tourists hike into Havasu canyon each year. Indians has inhabited the village for 700 years. A creek flowing through this canyon makes extensive farming possible through irrigation. Havasupai translates into English as "people of the blue green waters." Today the village consists of about 400 people, along with many dogs and horses. It is the only remaining place in the United States where the mail is delivered by pack mules. There are no roads, no autos, only dirt trails. It is a beautiful and peaceful community.

Beyond the village are the blue-green waterfalls. Spread out along Havasu Creek over a distance of about 2 miles, the first falls about 60 feet high is a little more than a mile north of the village. The second, Havasu Falls, is 120 feet high and is a favorite spot for swimming. The third, Mooney Falls, is 190 feet high. This stretch of canyon is one of the most beautiful places I have ever seen.

All however, was not perfect during our visit to this paradise. Sunburn was a problem for my kids because I was not aggressive enough when it came to covering them with sun screen lotion. My children will tell you about the mosquitoes. I had packed an insect repellent that claimed it made people invisible to bugs. In spite of this, my 12-year-old son could count 250 mosquito bites on his arms. The bites covered his face and neck. My other two children also had hundreds of bites, causing strangers to ask if they had chicken pox. The mosquitoes were wary of sucking the blood of a middle-aged Unitarian minister. I did not receive one bite.

However, the most disturbing event came the second night we were in the canyon. About 9:30 one of the Havasupai who worked for the National Park Service awakened me. He told me that the area around Moony Falls was closed until at least noon the next day. A man in his forties, had jumped off the top of the 190 foot falls aiming for the pool of water below. His body was at the bottom of the falls. They expect it to take all morning to carry it up from below the falls and take it out by helicopter. Apparently earlier in the day he had successfully jumped off the 120 feet high Havasu Falls. He did this although the Indians give every camper a list of rules to follow as they hike through the village to the campground. One rule says clearly that no one is to jump or dive into the creek. The Havasupai also post these rules near the waterfalls.

This tragic death relates directly to the issue I want to explore this morning. In a talk given at the Unitarian Universalist General Assembly, Dr. Robert Bellah suggested that as a group we Americans suffer from an excessive interest in individual self-fulfillment, to the neglect of our responsibility to live in community. A gentleman's decision to ignore the rules of the community led to his death in the Canyon last month. In the same way Bellah is concerned that American individualism may be destroying much that is good in our society. In an interview he gave at the University of California at Berkeley last year, Bellah said:

I worked with [a student] in the School of Public Health -- this was about ten years ago; his name is David Buchanan -- and he was doing a study of drug use among junior high school students. This is a matter of great concern for public health . . . One question he asked [junior high students] was "Does it mean anything to you to be an American?" And the extraordinary thing about what he found was the almost complete unanimity of the answer. The answer was "Yes." "As an American, I can do anything I want." This answer came from people in depressed parts of east Oakland, some of whom were not going to live to be twenty years old. It came from people in the hills [of Oakland] who were going to go to college and graduate school and had all the goodies of American society. It really crossed every line of race, class, and gender.

Bellah goes on to say:

I was asked to review a study of the essays of the 119 winners of something every year called Presidential Scholars. The top one percent of all high school graduates are asked to write an essay and 119 of them are chosen. The analysis of these essays is quite interesting. These are people who were telling you who they were, expressing their deepest convictions. They did not find in these essays that people were out for money or fame or what you might call a vulgar notion of American materialism. What they were saying, across the board, in almost stereotype language was "I am not a conformist. I am realizing myself. I am going to be the fullest kind of person I can be" . . . everyone claimed to be unique and they claimed it in exactly the same way. So that's a problem. In this culture, where conformism is such a negative thing, it's absolutely conformist to claim you're a nonconformist.

Further on in the same interview Bellah gave another example of excessive American individualism. He said:

A graduate student we had in the department who was from Puerto Rico, a native Spanish speaker, has been doing Teaching Assistant work in Sociology 1, our big introductory course. The instructor asked all the students to write a social autobiography. What he found was that they were all the same. It didn't matter whether they were black, Chicano, Asian. They were very much like the Presidential Scholars. They were all telling you how wonderfully unique they were. They weren't celebrating any ethnic identity. They were celebrating their selfhood.

In his talk to Unitarian Universalists Dr. Bellah made the point repeatedly that Unitarian Universalists place a high value on individualism. I saw this last month when I was in Arizona. Two days after leaving the Grand Canyon I gave the Sunday Sermon at the Prescott Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. The congregation is made up of many wonderful people several of whom helped with the last sermon when I visited the area with our Partner Church minister and his wife.

During my visit I picked up a copy of their monthly newsletter. It contained a copy of a proposed Amendment to their bylaws. The Amendment read as follows "A member [of the fellowship] shall be considered a member of the Unitarian Universalist Association, unless that person chooses to join Prescott Unitarian Universalist Fellowship and adding 'PUUF only' after his or her signature in the Membership Book." This option said the newsletter, "is in response to requests from some members who wish to support only the Fellowship," and not the Unitarian Universalist Association.

This was only a proposed amendment and I do not know whether it will actually become part of the group's bylaws. It is parochialism, the attitude of considering one's own local congregation sufficient and claiming that the larger association is not necessary. Bellah writes that such parochialism is only the continuation of radical individualism at the congregational level.

What is wrong with such radical individualism? I suggest that one purpose of human life is to learn to love each other, to learn to live together in community. I suggest that individual self fulfillment is not the purpose of human life. I suggest that individual self fulfilment can be self destructive. Witness the gentleman who jumped over the waterfall. However, it can also be destructive to others. Bellah said in his talk to Unitarian Universalists this past June:

. . . the United States, with its high evaluation of the individual person, is nonetheless alone among North Atlantic societies in the percentage of our population who live in poverty and . . . we are dismantling what was already the weakest welfare state of any North Atlantic nation. Just when we are moving to an ever greater validation of the sacredness of the individual person, our capacity to imagine a social fabric that would hold individuals together is vanishing. And this is in no small part due to the fact that our religious individualism is linked to an economic individualism which . . . ultimately knows nothing of the sacredness of the individual. If the only standard is money, then all other distinctions are undermined.

Bellah fears that the use of new technologies and information systems are encouraging excessive individualism. Linked by phones and computers, people live not in communities but in networks. He writes:

Educated in the highly competitive atmosphere of excellent universities and graduate schools, such persons have learned to travel light regarding family, church, locality, even nation. It is here, though not exclusively here, that we clearly see the process of individualization . . . an individualization that convinces people that freedom is the freedom to do anything they want.

Dr. Bellah suggests that even the recent interest in spirituality is an example of excessive individualism. In his talk at the UUA General Assembly, he said:

We know that for Americans the word spiritual often denotes private or personal experience whereas the word religious denotes 'institutional' religion.

Bellah is suggesting that when people complain that a church is not spiritual enough, what they may in fact be saying is that a church is focused more on maintaining a community, than on encouraging individual self-fulfillment.

At the end of his talk to Unitarian Universalists, Bellah talked about what sustains the spiritual community of which he is a part. Robert Bellah is Episcopalian rituals and sacraments. For him, the feeling of transcendence, the feeling that he is part of something larger than himself, comes in the ritual and sacraments of the Episcopal church such as the communion service. This is why he found it disturbing that when the survey asked Unitarian Universalists "What is the 'glue' that binds individual congregations together?" and 61 percent said least important was "common worship elements and language."

In response to this survey, one of you wrote to me that the survey does not mean that UUs think worship is unimportant. Instead it is the diversity and the freedom to explore and experiment with forms of worship that binds us together.

I believe there is truth to this. Our love of diversity and experimentation is one of the glues that holds us together. However, I think that repetition also has value. This is why in my own ministry I try to provide some in worship continuity from week to week. I follow a similar order of service most Sundays. I use the same doxology and we sing "Spirit of Life" most Sundays when I lead the worship. With Bellah, I believe that common worship elements do provide glue that holds religious communities together.

At the end of our two days and three nights of camping in the canyon, we hiked the two miles from the campground to the village. We had originally planned to walk out. However, the intense summer heat, the bugs, the sunburn and the aching muscles motivated me to ask about riding horses to the rim. "Sorry," said the villager in charge of make reservations for the horses, your daughter is too small and too young to ride a horse. "Your only option, other than hiking, is to take the helicopter that flies into the village each morning at 10:00 a.m. It takes ten minutes to fly to the rim."

Well, I stoically hid my disappointment about not getting to go on a three-hour horse ride in 110 degree heat, and I signed up the family for the ten-minute helicopter ride. One village rule is that the Havasupai always get priority on the helicopter.

When it was finally our turn to fly out, I found the experience of rising out of the canyon, to be extraordinary. I looked at the terraces, with their buttresses and pinnacles rising toward the rim. Great triangular substructures support temple-like pinnacles, which form the huge amphitheaters that lie between them. Now I know how a dragonfly might feel if it were to rising from the floor to the roof inside the National Cathedral.

When I got back to Bethesda, I was greeted with the news of the tragic deaths at the Capitol building, the tragic bombings in Africa and the continuing investigation of the President, all depressing events.

Nevertheless, here at the church I was surprised and pleased to see how much work had been done on the conversion of the parsonage into an Education Center and Memorial Garden. Two Saturday mornings, under the direction of Rich Clark, I joined with many others in the church in painting the inside of the structure. In this project many people are giving up their time for the good of the larger community.

I thought that I would like to bring my old teacher, Robert Bellah here and show him the work. I would walk with him through the unfinished building, introducing him to Jack Shaffer and saying: "Here, community is alive and healthy. Of course there are difficult times when we do not all agree. Nevertheless, among these people there is a deep inner commitment to being together, to working together, to worshiping together. We do believe that in community we will sustain the wholeness, the unity, and the experience of the spiritual that we seek."



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